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Research suggests that men are quicker to fall in love than women

Research suggests that men are quicker to fall in love than women

loveIn Britain, most men say they know whether they are in love after just one date and the rest are likely to know within three.  Nearly a quarter said they had believed in love at first sight and knew whether a girl was 'the one' within seconds.

Women, on the other hand, are more indecisive on the issue, consulting with friends and family and waiting at least a month before making their minds up.

The research shows that the average British man falls in love just over three times compared to the average woman who says she has only been in love once.

But while they may fall in love more easily, men also get their hearts broken more often with more men claiming to having loved someone who didn't love them back.

The research was commissioned to launch bestselling author Elizabeth Noble's new novel, The Way We Were.  Elizabeth Noble says: "I was surprised at all this evidence that men fall further and faster in love, more often, than women do. I'd have guessed women were more in love with love than men were, but it seems I'm wrong.  I've been in love more than once, and had my heart seriously broken (shattered, even) before I met my husband. If you're lucky, you have fond memories of first loves, but even if you've been damaged, I'd argue you learn, and take things forward into future relationships that can make those work better and stay stronger."

Men were more likely to say 'I love you' first and were also more likely than women to pine after their first love.

Both sexes agreed that their first love was the one they took the longest to get over and one in four said they didn't think they would ever fully recover from the heartbreak their first love caused them.

Men are also more likely to regret splitting up with their first girlfriend and to think that they were happier with their first love than they are now.

A quarter of Brits think about their first love at least once a week and those that are still searching for the right partner are more likely to reminisce than anyone else.

Women were more likely to be happy with the decisions they have made and more realistic about how happy they were in the first place.  However,  women were more likely to try and track their ex-partner down over the internet and keep track on him and who he is dating.

 

About D. Beeksma

One of the growing crowd of American "nones" herself, Deborah is a prolific writer who finds religion, spirituality and the impact of belief (and non-belief) on culture inspiring, fascinating and at times, disturbing. She hosts the God Discussion show and handles the site's technical work. Her education and background is in business, ecommerce and law.
  • Jenn

    This is a fascinating read, but I’m not totally surprised that men are more delusional about love and quicker to fall head first. I’ve spent a lot of time in Thailand, where many men come from the UK and other Western countries to find love and companionship. If you go to bars or clubs frequented by Western men, there is a good chance of hearing a sad story about a man quickly falling in love with a woman, marrying her, losing her, and losing all of his savings too. Thailand lawyers specializing in divorce, custody, and alimony know these stories all too well. Western men that fall in love too fast can find themselves facing various legal woes after the relationship has gone bad. I’m sure Western women also find themselves in this predicament in Asia, but the many stories of men’s heartbreak in Thailand totally support this study.

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